Sunday, June 4, 2017

Summer 2017

1. I think you guys are awesome! I really need your advice. I've been seeing this guy for about 2 years, he cheated on me once last year but I forgave him & we got passed it. Well he got arrested about 3 months ago, I've been going to see him, doing the faithful girl thing. I recently found out that when he was arrested he was with the girl he cheated on me with! He swears it was nothing but I'm done. He doesn't have any family & says I'm all he has. Am I wrong for leaving him now while he's incarcerated? - WindyWendy

Rikki - WindyWendy, a lot of guys bait their women with that same picture when they get incarcerated-- the picture that if you aren't there they will be all alone. While in some cases this may be true,  let me just say that he wasn't alone the night of the arrest, so he won't be alone during his bid.


2. I'm 21 years old & I've been having sex with my dads best friend. He & my dad have been friends for over 20 years. When he comes over for dinner or the holidays I still call him uncle Brad and no one has any idea what's happening. Is this wrong? - Anonymous

Rikki - Anonymous, this is absolutely wrong. Your father better not find out either. Call it quits before you become the center of an ugly fight!

3. I'm a 24 year old man and I'm in love with my sister's boyfriend. He was just a cool guy at first, we'd go play basketball together, hit the gym & hang out when my sister was at work. Then one night we were drinking and we kissed. I thought it was a one time thing but it wasn't. We've never slept together but I feel it getting closer to that point. I love my sister & I would never want to hurt her. Even if they split, how can I be with him? It would destroy her. But I have strong feelings for him & I don't know what to do. Help!! - Mercury60 

Rikki - Mercury60, anyone that has dealt with your sister is forever off limits. What I would do, is be loyal to your sister and let her know that her boyfriend and you had a moment. It's only right. She deserves the chance to make a decision knowing the whole truth


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