Wednesday, November 6, 2013

November 2013

1. My boyfriend says his ex is prettier than me but I seriously don't think so. Insecurity is eating at me now & thinking of getting plastic surgery. Should I? - Unpretty

Rikki: Dear Unpretty, Girl NO! Its NEVER that serious. First off, he should never even say something like that to you, whether an ex is prettier than you or not--that's not the thing to say to someone. Instead of changing yourself, just change the person you're dating ;-) Hope that helps.

Petrie: Dear Unpretty, what the Hell are u serious right now? Hell No u shouldn't get any plastic surgery because of a man! If you're insecure then there's something he's doing to make u feel that way. What's the purpose of him telling u his ex is prettier than u? And if she was or wasn't would it even matter? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so if he feels like she's  prettier than u then why is he with u & not her? Those are the things u should be asking, not whether or not u should have plastic surgery. Instead of pleasing him, please yourself get some Self Esteem Please before u regret it for the rest of your life. Don't let anyone define u but U...Petrie❤️❤️❤️❤️

2. Can spirits have sex with you? I woke up panties were soaked but felt something was touching me while I was asleep. It wasn't a fantasy. - Hazel Princess

Rikki: Hazel Princess, First off, do you have a pet of some sort? A cat or dog maybe that could be creeping into bed with you and touching or playing with you at night? Im not a paranormal specialist by ANY MEANS, but in regards to a "spirit" having sex with you, I want to say no--probably not. Maybe you are experiencing a subconscious erotic moment, like a "wet dream," but for a woman. Its very possible to be so aroused in your subconscious that your body believes you are really experiencing this moment of erotica and therefore reacts.

Petrie: Dear Hazel Princess, I can't answer that for u, if u believe in that sort of stuff than it's possible, stranger things have happened. Or could it be possible that u were having a wet dream? (Women have them too). Could it be possible that u were pleasing yourself?....Petrie❤️❤️❤️❤️

3. My question is this: is it classified as actually cheating if your married and u send nude pictures? -LUVMe5111

Rikki: Dear LUVMe5111, I wouldn't necessarily classify that as cheating, however it is definitely inappropriate. Normally, sexting and photos are used to provide a fantasy or image for a person preceding possible intimacy. Although its not actually cheating, sending these kinds of things to another person can definitely lead to the recipient wanting more, so it can definitely lead to cheating and should be stopped if you can help it. Its a definite NO NO.

Petrie: Dear LUVMe5111, to me it's not cheating but to someone else it may be. Did u fantasize about that person u seen nude? I don't think it's cheating until u actually physically do it, but that's just my opinion.....Petrie❤️❤️❤️❤️

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