Thursday, October 3, 2013

October 2013

1. The last two times my boyfriend and I have had sex he said that something was poking him and it hurts. What could it be? - Confused

Petrie: Dear confused, did u have some sort of birth control device implanted since the last two times you & your man had sex or a tampon maybe? If so that could be it. If not then I'm just as confused as u are, but either way I would go get checked by a doctor..Petrie❤️❤️❤️

Rikki: Dear Confused, to be honest, I haven't heard of a situation like this before. You may want to consult your OB/GYN.

2. I want to have a 3some with another girl and my girlfriend does too but she's insecure about her body so she won't do it, any advice? - Shaad

Petrie: Dear Shaad, what exactly is she insecure about? Is she ever going to be truly secure about her body? Those are the things u need to be asking her & she should be asking herself. Maybe she doesn't want to do it & this is her way of prolonging it. If I were u & if u valued your relationship I wouldn't push the issue. If she wants to do it she will let u know...Petrie❤️❤️❤️

Rikki: Dear Shaad, When it comes to threesomes, it is important for your girlfriend to feel more superior and sexier than the "third party." If she doesn't feel like her body is up to par, maybe you should wait until it does. Nothing worse than seeing your partner engage in activity with someone who's hotter than you! It will just make her feel worse. Encourage her to work out with you at the gym etc, it may boost her confidence.

3. When you're girlfriend or boyfriend says you're on a brake, should sex with others be not allowed or allowed? - AllyRock

Petrie: Dear Allyrock, those are questions u needed to establish with your partner when you took a "so called brake", because there's different rules for different people....Petrie❤️❤️❤️

Rikki: Dear AllyRock, Sex with others, while on break from a relationship, is generally allowed, but not encouraged if you plan on getting back with your partner. Sex brings on feelings and emotions that can be hard to control. Once your break ends, you may run the risk of being emotionally or physically attracted to the "sex partner(s)" during your break. But if you do plan on engaging in activity with others during this break and getting back with your girl/boyfriend, make sure you guys have a "dont ask" policy. What happens on the break shouldn't be brought up when the relationship resumes, it will just make things worse.


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